I have spent many years living in Southern California. From Marina Del Rey in Los Angeles – to Dana Point and San Clemente in Orange County – to Santee and Del Mar in San Diego. At one time, I considered myself a San Diegan. So with many friends throughout the area, my thoughts and prayers have been with them daily this week, as they deal with this historic catastrophe.

For those of you who have never had the opportunity to visit Santa Barbara, Marina Del Rey, Newport Beach, Laguna Beach, San Clemente Pier, Cardiff-by-the Sea, Del Mar, La Jolla, Rancho Sante Fe, downtown San Diego, or the beautiful mountains east of I-5, you have no idea of the beauty being destroyed by these fires. However, the loss of homes and family possessions is even more devastating.

A San Diego friend, evacuated from her home and staying with a mutual friend stated, “I can’t even begin to explain the pain, especially not knowing if my home will be there or not when I’m able to return. This is so surreal.” She has been staying with a friend who lives on the ocean, and yet still needs to wear a mask when going outside, as the smoke and flames continue to be pushed west by the Santa Ana winds.

I usually try to get back to Los Angeles and San Diego to visit friends a few times each year. I was hoping to do so again prior to year’s end. I’m now afraid of what I will see. I’m even more afraid to learn how this may have affected the lives of my friends.

Whether religious or not, say a prayer for Southern Californians, especially the brave firefighters who try to save homes, businesses, and some of our country’s most beautiful areas.